The Versatile Husband

Ejaculation Without Touch: Hands Free Cum Through Prostate Massage

Sometimes when you least expect it, excitingly different sex can happen.

When was the last time you shot your load without any help from a hand – either his or yours?  Ejaculating just by being fucked is an all too rare an occurrence, particularly for men over 50 years of age. If it happens to you, then you’re in the fortunate company of a skilled and sexy man – and you’ve still got your prostate. If you have a propensity to premature ejaculation, nipple play that intensifies an erection or can conjure wonderful erotic fantasies then these can also be positives to aid such ejaculation.

A typical scenario begins with whatever preliminaries assist you in getting horny and sexually stimulated:

-       it’s several days since you last ejaculated

-       there’s been lots of dirty sex talk via SMS or phone calls with your chosen fuck buddy

-       you’ve chosen a man who you know gets a strong erection, is happy being a top and has some ability to enthusiastically fuck for a longer time than the seemingly usual 3 minutes

-       anything else that helps turn you on, as it is this excitement level that will ratchet up your urgent need to ejaculate

-       play in a bed – it’s easier in that location

-       kiss, suck, rim, lick, stroke – all these could add to your excitement

-       take your time having your rosebud opened in readiness for pleasuring

After some preliminary fucking – in/out, straight entry and exit – move in to what I call ‘the scissors’ position. Here you are on a combination of being partially on your back and on your right side with your left leg up in the air. Your buddy enters you and starts his in/out motion. You’ll feel different in this position compared with how the session began. Not only is this 'scissor' position very comfortable for you but it allows his erection to enter you from a different angle – a side angle – and that lets him direct his lunges in to the side of your canal and more than likely (depending on his penis length) putting pressure on your prostate. In fact he is now massaging your prostate with his penis head.

It’s the continued application of that pressure that will bring you to climax. You can continue to vary the positions for sex during your session and certainly spend time sitting on his erection so that you can be in control of it for your pleasure, but in my experience you need to get back to the 'scissors' for an extended time in order to have you pleasured to ejaculation.

As you are being fucked in this position the pleasure will become more and more intense so much so that you’ll want to push yourself, especially your head and upper torso deeper into the mattress. It’s a reaction to the deep pleasuring that you’re receiving. Keep those hands away from your erection but begin to feel your butt cheeks grinding deep into the bed. Imagine your deepest erotic fantasy and feel that you are living it. The more you sink in to the pleasure zone the more your buddy needs to continue his plunging. He’ll know by your ever tightening pelvic muscles that you are getting close to shooting and he’ll keep up his rhythmical movement so as not to deny you the pleasure.

Depending on your horniness a hands-free ejaculation should not be far away. Chances are the first time it happens to you it will be a totally unexpected event. Your buddy has quietly guided you into a place where it’s possible to happen. And when it does, you’ll be very surprised, amazed and wide-eyed at what just shot unaided from your penis. Perhaps verbally adding your disbelief at what just happened.

Flop back on to the bed and let him continue to fuck you. You won’t shoot much volume again but don’t be surprised at additional cum oozing its way out. And let him continue until he cums inside you (inside a condom of course) because then you’ll feel the full intensity of his muscle spasms giving you both abundant additional pleasure.

When you leave him to return to the outside world you’ll be amazingly happy – surprised that at your age you can still achieve something so unusual and so pleasurably rewarding.

You will of course, want to recreate the same event in every detail as soon as possible – but that is not going to happen, so don’t ask him for it. Don’t judge him if it doesn’t happen again with his sex with you, and don’t judge other lovers for not being able to recreate that experience for you.

Ejaculating without using your hands is not something that can be expected from most sexual encounters. It’s a unique one-off event that happens when all the circumstances align, one that requires not only a skilled top with an erection to match, but you need to be extremely horny and hot for action.

When it happens, see it as a gift from the sexual gods and enjoy the memories – until it unexpectedly happens again.

And for those times when you don’t have a real life man to assist you, don’t forget those prostate manipulation toys, your ever reliable finger and your brain, as these can all conjure up fantasies and feelings that can also lead to a hands-free ejaculation. Some gay masseurs can also achieve the same happy ending for you, but you’ll rarely see this service advertised due to local health and medical laws.

Just like in all of life, embrace this unexpected sexual experience when it arrives. It can – and does – happen and when it does savour the intense pleasures it brings you.